never being good enough is soooo awesome I love feeling like this every day

huariqueje:
“Mäster Mikaels Street 12 , Södermalm, Stockholm - Tomas Mandel
Swedish, b. 1923 -
Oil on canvas , 60x50 cm
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huariqueje:

Mäster Mikaels Street  12 ,  Södermalm, Stockholm   -  Tomas Mandel 

Swedish, b. 1923 -

Oil on canvas ,  60x50 cm

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queeranarchism:

mallk-z:

lakemichiganbaby-moved-deactiva:

btw being excessively nonconfrontational is NOT a positive trait. it does not mean u are “too nice” or just too kind to hurt people, it means u have a problem communicating and you need to work on it.

There are people in the notes saying that the alternative reason is that they’re doing it because of trauma and i gotta say that

1) same. I did have this same problem and reason for doing it.

2) this is not actually an alternate reason. You guys also have a problem communicating and while you can trace exactly WHY you have trouble communicating that doesn’t mean it’s okay to treat everyone like they’re potentially your former abuser and that you DO still need to work on this.

‘This behavior comes from trauma’ and ‘This behavior is harmful to you, to others and to your relationships with others’ are two truths that can co-exist, and that do co-exist quite frequently.

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